Sunday, October 24, 2010

Live Life

God is not a man that He would lie neither the son of man that He should repent. Has He said a thing and will He not bring it to pass. This is the assurance that I have in Him that whatsoever I ask of Him, if I believe with no atom of doubt in my mind, He will bring it to pass.

Over the last few days, it’s like I’ve been playing a lot. You know when you have that feeling of not being serious. I had a whole lot of things planned out for this period and all of a sudden it seems as if I put them all on hold to have a nice playtime.

Thinking about this some days ago, I heard the Holy Spirit tell me, “You need to live life, get off the worrying and just live life”. And my response was “I am just playing away my God given time, I’m supposed to be more productive than this”. Excuse me, watching movies all day long in the name of being self employed is not life. And I heard Him say, “That’s part of life”.

And at that point, it dawned on me that in this pilgrimage called life, every moment that passes by that we do not utilize, is a moment lost in time and it cannot be regained. Really, I don’t think that it hurts to sometimes just live life instead of worry through life.

Jesus asked us in Matt 6:27 “Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?”

In the face of the trying times, I know that this might seem like a difficult thing to do but please drop the worries and the fears and just LIVE LIFE.

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

THE MAN SON

As the first of five children and the only son for some twenty plus years until my little brother came along (don’t ask me how that happened), We came home for vacation and noticed mum was consistently wearing a big shirt, which was unusual, we inquired and it turned out to be that she and dad had been very busy while we were all away studying hard in school.
Anyway, growing up, I noticed that when there was any errand to be run, I was always sent on those errands. The errands seemed to increase in magnitude as I grew older. From arranging our toys after playing (though the girls had most of the toys being that they were more), to walking the dogs. When I started exhibiting tendencies of driving off with the car, came the task of washing the car, then balancing sheets after daily sales. All the while, one question that was constantly on my lips was why me? And my dad never hesitated to say, ‘you are the man of the house’. Truth, it didn’t make any sense at all. My sisters were available and househelps and employees were being paid to do these things but dad kept saying ‘you are the man of the house’.
It all started making sense when dad suffered a stroke while mum was expecting my little brother. Those words ‘YOU ARE THE MAN’, made all the sense in the world at that point. I had to be a father, a mother, a brother, a business man and a student all at the same time. Looking back with hindsight, I was not under pressure it was something I was already doing unknowingly. I remember a few times when my parents would have a misunderstanding, I’d mediate and to my amazement, they’ll heed my counsel and make up. I thank God for seeing me through it all and my dad for helping to mould me even at a young age.
Why am I saying these? Despite your role or position in the family, it is vital to know that you will undergo certain things not for the present but for the future. God might just be preparing you for what is ahead of you. Never you think your parents are partial and seem to favour one or more siblings over you…it’s a training phase. Sometime in the future, you will look back with gratitude to God and your parents for those experiences because then you will realize that they were only meant to mould you into a vessel…fit for the Master’s use.
Remember, God delights in every detail of your life and will make all things work together for your good…that is if you love Him.
Remain Blessed.